How To Become More Outgoing
Can I be more friendly? 3
I'm a very shy person, a lot of people think I'm funny when I meet them for the first time because I don't talk much I find it very difficult to talk to people I don't know what to say I want to be sociable I want to but it seems that even if I try to be friendly I can't, I want to talk a lot and have many friends, but I feel unable to speak loudly and talk to everyone Don't do Go out They are better than me, so I am calm, very scared of them, I just want to be happy and open minded and I have many friends, but it is difficult to change my personality so I am depressed.
I was shy in high school too, so I was forced to be more open minded in college. So I finally realized that if I wanted to make friends there, I would have to reach out to people. Now no one thinks I've ever been embarrassed!
Do it first until you get it right. You see, the most open-minded people are interesting and busy people. They constantly respond to everything they hear, not just a stare. They use their hands. You get up and move forward instead of stopping. A good rule of thumb is to reflect the actions and reactions of the person you are talking to. That way, even if you're following their lead, you seem to have naturally apologized for the fun. Remember this when you are in a group.
Second, the conversation. An easy way to do this is to look at the person you want to talk to and ask questions based on what he or she is wearing or doing. Even if you don't care what they read, asking what it is can lead to more interesting conversations later, and TADA will seem friendly.
Third, listen to them. If you ask a question, they will want to talk about it. Instead of engaging in observation and criticism, step back, let them talk, and ask more questions when you have time, whatever you have to say. Basically, you interview them to see if they are interested. And the more you get to know them, the easier it will be to talk to them.
Ok and wait It gets easier with practice. A little like the piano.
I have this problem too. I am not an open minded person either. But what I have learned from experience is that socializing is not that difficult. The first thing you should try to overcome is trust. You have to be old enough to face other people. Second, look around you and see how interesting it is to talk to other people. Climate . Say sweet words with all your heart. Finally, when you apply an object or thing to yourself, tell it what you like and the conversation is based on other people's reactions.
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I'm a bit like you, I remember a college year when I barely said a word. I joined the football team because of my best friend (he was more because of me). After all, I'm a little friendly, just because of experience. If you are old enough, you can also try to find a part-time job. The more social interaction you try, the more uncomfortable it will become. Now I work in a store where I can greet people as far as I know ... which would have brought tears to my eyes eight years ago! So try to talk to people ... through sports, activities or work ... and remember that people who spend too much time deciding on you have a very boring life!
I used 2B the same way and believe me, it doesn't make you feel good, but you don't have to do what you normally do, laugh a lot, talk to 2 people There are people you never think about talking to. 2, try going to the club or dreaming at your school, go to 2 parties and the last 2 are as strong as you are (somewhere where no one can see you)
Be you and be happy !!!
I feel that way sometimes. All you need to do is step in and start a conversation. You can talk to people and things like that. Don't be sad and it's hard. Remember that life is very easy to let go, so make the most of your time, so what's the point of being ashamed? Good me =]
Amazing when I read this I thought to myself. I've always been embarrassed ... and still am. Just take small steps. I tried to get into the blanket. I listened to all my friends talk and then one day I was hanging out with my friend Ronnie and he asked why I never talked ... and he was very friendly ... and I told him He's very shy ... and I knew he would talk to me and ask questions. So just add
So ... as you say. Go with them ... like in the mall and wherever you go ... I can say that talking to them is very useful. I met her and n ... I and I both know that you are a princess and she will always love you ... don't worry. All these things help me ...
How To Become More Outgoing
How To Become More Outgoing
I feel the same way, but now I'm in my thirties. I'm still not very friendly, but I've learned to speak my mind. You are the one, don't try to change yourself in the society. Try talking to C about your depression.
I know it's hard, but when you talk to someone, compliment them or talk about common things like breaking news and things like that.
I'm shy, too, but as I get older, I become more talkative and open-minded. But you have to say hello to someone at school and introduce yourself or go to someone in your class and say: I have to borrow your notes or something.
Okay, say hello, I'm [your name here] and ask things like what your name is ... all the time, congratulations guys. You know, I was the same ... but it was so important that I became a lily, but you have to take the first step ... so the next time you want to talk to someone, remember, OK! !!!